My kiddos are gone this week. I took them to Oklahoma last weekend to spend some time with Nana & Cowpa. One evening that I was there, I made dinner for my parents and my Aunt Meme & Uncle Curt and all the kiddos (mine and 2 of Meme’s grandkids). I made Ham and Cheese Hot Pockets and Snickerdoodle Bars…mmmm! Anyways, Curt was telling me how quiet it is now that all 4 of their boys are grown and out of the house, and how peaceful it is. LOL He said, “I know that people always think – What am I going to do when the kids are gone?! – and I wondered the same thing. But I’m here to tell you: It’s nice!!”
Let me preface with this: I know he loves his boys very much and I know that I love my kiddos very much. But I’ve gotten a small glimpse of what it will be like in the future, when my babies are out of the house, and I can honestly say that I’m going to be okay with it. Am I in a hurry for this time to come? No!! Am I gonna be sad and cry when it’s their time to leave? You can plan on it. I want to thoroughly enjoy each and every step and stage my kids go through. But what I’m trying to say is this: On the other side…when they are all moved out…I’m still gonna have Mike. He’s my best friend and in that regard, I am excited for it to just be me and him again. The man is awesome and fun and he inspires me.
Which leads me into saying this: If your husband (or if you’re a man: YOU) haven’t gone to Men’s Encounter, yet. Please strongly encourage your husband to go. And if you’re a man and you’re reading this: GO! I was a bit skeptical about Mike going. He was a bit skeptical about going. He’s not super emotional. He’s been to a lot of conferences. He’s seen and experienced “mountain top” experiences. He’s a pastor. He’s been in a church since birth. But I’m here to tell you, he encountered God this past weekend. In a different way. In a way just meant for men. He’s still my awesome Mike, and yet changed. I know this probably sounds like a commercial for the Men’s Encounter that CCC is hosting in September, but I don’t mean it to be. God is infiltrating Crossroads through this ministry. I can’t stress it enough. It’s amazing. Encourage your husbands to go in September and if you’re a man, please contact one of our ministers about it. As one of the men said when they got back: “Jesus showed up”. All 16 men that went were deeply impacted and so have been all the men that have gone before them.